I like to sit and stoke the fire while I listen to my friends converse about whatever. It's fun to pounce into a conversation when you have something particularly valuable or funny to add.
I also like to drop absurd conversation starter questions and then sit and listen. It's like the conversational equivalent of a hit and run, so much fun.
Regarding your dream, it's disconcerting to know that our mental state is so fickle that a morning can be ruined for something so innocent as a dream. I am not in control of my own brain. The concept of *I* is even up for question, am I my brain? Is my brain *I*?
Bartender, drinky now please