The cure for all that is called "women" - and vice versa for them. Nothing beats being perpetually baffled over what you thought were settled truths about reality to forget about at least some of the unsettling truths about reality. :-)
(Yeah, I know... I left out a crap ton and a half of newly discovered other genders... but, sorry folks, I'm too old to mentally engage - never mind embrace - all that.
And don't get me wrong: I don't dispute (any of) it. It's just not part of my now mostly hardened representational mind space, and I've better things to do than attempt to muck with what took many decades to settled into. Said another way, I made my bets about reality and the language that best describes it per my experience(s), and the time of wins/losses coming to roost is upon me. But good luck to everyone embracing their own mappings of <ineffable> to words!)