Midnight Pub

when to jump

~dsp

when do you know it's time to leave a place


tetris

measure where you are now, with the possibilities you see everyday. Not just the possibilities you want, but all possibilities you can take ("the soup"). If where you are now outranks most of the soup, then I say "stay".

If you have to jump, make sure it's not into the abyss of possibility soup

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dsp

this was very helpful, thank you.

i'm much happier where i am now.

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tetris

that's good to hear!

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dwaynan

When I dread going back to it. But I suppose that's only a useful metric if you can leave temporarily.

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inquiry

For me it's after three consecutive affirmative Magic 8 Ball answers -OR- when my wife tells me it is. :-)

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mouse

Apart from practical issues (money, time) I'd offer when it affects your Demeanour or character. Or in my case confidence.

Are you still enjoying or growing?

Hope this helps.

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dsp

The answer was no to both, this really did help. Thank you.

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